I’m glad you’re here! Well, actually I’m not. If you are reading this that means your life has probably been turned upside down. The unimaginable has happened. Life has stopped making sense. Your baby has died. Life is not going the way you planned. Relationships have ended. You’re wrecked with constant fear and anxiety. Old traumas are resurfacing. You’re struggling to pick up the pieces and keeping going. You find yourself self-medicating so you don’t have to feel the pain. You’re unsure life will ever be the same again. And it might not.

For that reason I’m sorry you’re here. I’m sorry life is so painful right now. But I am glad you’ve found my site.

I know from both my professional and personal experiences that coming out the other side is possible. Although it may seem impossible at times, you can heal. If you’re unsure where to start, I’m here to help.

You might be thinking, “but how can I heal when things will never be the same”. When something so painful occurs, and life cannot go back to the way it was before, healing might mean evolving into a new version of yourself. Navigating all the crap that has happened can be overwhelming, but you don’t need to do it alone.

Such a huge loss is accompanied with so many conflicting emotions. If I feel joy does that mean I’m not sad my baby died? No, having moments of joy does not mean you’re any less sad. I will help you find ways experience both joy for your life and sadness that your child is no longer here.

Guilt often goes hand-in-hand with grief. The “what if’s” wreck havoc on our brains. Did I do enough? Am I to blame? Together we will work through the guilt so you can remember your child with love instead of guilt.

When we lose a child, or any loved one for that matter, you do not stop loving them. But then what the heck do you do with all that love with nowhere to go? Our work together will help you find ways to continue to love, remember and parent your child even though they are no longer here.

Evolve Counseling, LLC provides a safe, supportive place for you to explore what healing means for you. ​ Let’s figure it out together.


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Hi!  I’m Kelly Coté, founder and therapist at Evolve Counseling, LLC.  You already know that I’m a therapist, but what you might not know is that I am a survivor of the unimaginable.  Six years into my career as a therapist, I found myself living my worst nightmare.  My world came crashing down around me when my first child was stillborn due to a genetic condition.  After I walked my own healing journey, I became passionate about helping others  who have found they are living the unimaginable, living their worst nightmare.

I get it.  I know what it’s like to pick up the pieces and to deeply question whether there are even any pieces to pick up.  As you’re reading this, you may be thinking it’s impossible to heal and who could blame you-this sucks.

I am passionate about and dedicated to helping my clients figure out what healing means for them.  It’s different for everyone, which makes sense because no two experiences are the same.  What I do know is you don’t need to figure it out alone.

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